Voluntary Simplicity
Creating A Simple, More Enriching Vision of Success
by
Bruce Elkin
While browsing the best-sellers in my local bookstore recently,
I was shocked to find tomes on money and success displayed
alongside guides for simplifying your life and enriching
your spirit. How-to-be-happy titles sat next to treatises
on saving-the-earth.
"What kinds of people," I asked my bookseller, "buy these
different kinds of books?"
"The same people," she said, smiling sweetly. I must have
looked perplexed, because she leaned forward, touched me
gently on the arm and said, "There's a convergence of interests,
dear, a kind of shared vision is emerging." I thanked her
and left wondering if she was right.
Researcher Paul Ray thinks so. He claims 24% of adult Americans
are "Cultural Creatives," interested in psychology, spirituality
and self-actualization. Most are strong advocates of sustainability
and simpler lifestyles. Ray says this group could herald
the birth of an "Integral Culture"a synthesis of modern
and traditional values and practices. However, he warns, "Our
future is not ordained."1
Though the possibility of an Integral Culture is exciting,
Ray rightly urges caution. It's too easy to assume "the transformation" is
happening just because we read and talk about it. We've heard
predictions like these before. A 1977 report, Voluntary
Simplicity (3)2, documented similar findings to Ray's
and predicted that, by 2000, there could be 90 million Americans
practicing voluntary simplicity.
Instead, we got the eighties.
What happened? Why did we tell pollsters one thing
then do another?
Because, I believe, we suffer from a dichotomy of desires.
We want two things: a good life and a healthy environment.
So, we can, for example, support a local clean air initiative,
yet still own two cars, drive 100 miles a day and live in
houses that leak energy like sieves. We read books on simple
living even as we bone up on mutual funds. Such divergence
leads to confusion about what matters . Before we give birth
to an Integral Culture, we need to cultivate integrity in
our own lives and values. This, however, is no small task
in such chaotic times. It will take more than trendy intentions
and glib affirmations to bring it about.
Our dichotomy of desires occurs because we have been raised
in a culture that, on one hand, values material growth, individualism
and competitive achievement. But, we've also been urged by
parents and religious teachers to share, cooperate and value
the higher things in life. So, even as we strive for material
well-being we also long for a simpler, more fulfilling way
of life. However, when we simplify, we often find ourselves
lamenting, not only lost luxuries but also a lack of challenge
and the rewards and respect that come with social and economic
achievement.
Because of this dichotomy, changes in one area of our lives
often lead to problems in other areas. Take Celia and Alverjo,
for example. They, like many people, saw simple living as
a solution to the stress of a complex urban life. Though
committed to the environment and simple living during college,
this well-intentioned couple later morphed into what they
called "fast tracking yuppies" immersed in the "adventure
of business." After ten frenetic, but materially successful
years, they burned out. On the edge of both breakdown and
break-up they sold everything and moved to the country.
"We wanted," Celia said, "to escape the craziness, to slow
down, re-connect." It didn't work. Country life was too simple.
They felt isolated, bored, too dependent on each other's
company.
"We thought getting rid of problems would be enough," said
Alverjo, "but it wasn't. Attaining simplicity just increased
our hunger for challenge and involvement." After two years
they moved back to the city searching for a middle way. They're
not alone.
We all have contradictory values. However, that's
not necessarily a "problem." Like the poet, Whitman, we are
large, we contain multitudes. We can containand
transcendcontradictions. Besides, it is not conflicting
values that cause conflict but how we structurei.e. organize
and arrangethose values as we create our lives.
"Composing a life," says Mary Catherine Bateson, "involves
an openness to possibilities and the capacity to put them
together in a way that is structurally sound."3
Arranging values in "either/or" structures, leads to actions
that oscillate back and forth between one value and the other.
However, if we arrange values in "both/and" structures or,
better still, in hierarchies in which values are prioritized,
we can more easily satisfy both values without detracting
from either. The structure, "a good life or a healthy
environment," is likely to lead to conflict and oscillation.
The structure, "a good life and a healthy environment," though
better, is still unstable, likely to slide back into an either/or
structure at any time. Neither of these structures is likely
to lead to real and lasting results.
The structure, "a good life in a healthy environment," includes
and honours both values. More important, it clearly shows
the relationship between them: a healthy environment is primary,
a good life is secondary, supporting. In this structure we
are much more likely to organize our "good" life so it supports
and enriches the ecological systems on which we depend.
To change behaviour, change structure. Rather than deny,
alter or scrap values, we'd do better to align all our
values in support of what truly matters. Janet Luhrs, Editor
of Simple Living magazine, provided a modest example
of changing behaviour by changing structure in her Summer
'95 editorial, "To Mow or Not To Mow."
Janet wanted a neatly mown lawn and a healthy environment.
She also wanted to get fit. Instead of hiring a kid to cut
her lawn with a pollution-spewing gas mower while she trundled
the treadmill at an expensive gym, she transcended her
dilemma by buying a push mower, cancelling her gym membership
and cutting her own lawn. Organizing her desire for a tidy
lawn so it supported her higher value of healthy simplicity
enabled her to save money, get fit and contribute to a healthy
environment.
Organizing values and actions so they support what you truly want
is best accomplished by focusing on what you want, not problems
you don't want. Though sometimes necessary, problem-solving
often produces temporary relief rather than real and
lasting results. The key to integrity in life and
culture is creatingbringing into beingwhat
matters most to you. Not because it's a solution to
a problem, but simply because you love it and want to see
it exist.
"All the great things," said poet Robert Frost, "are done
for their own sake." The great artists, leaders and visionaries
of history were not problem-solvers. They were builderscreatorsbringing
into being the creations that truly mattered to them.
Even psychologist, C. G. Jung, felt the most important
problems of life "can never be solved, but only outgrown." Patients,
he saw, improved when "some higher or wider interest" focused
their attention. Their problem "was not solved logically
... but faded when confronted with a new and stronger life
urge."4
True creating taps into and channels that stronger life
urgeon two levels. First, we create specific creations.
Things like a safe, mutually respectful, loving relationship,
a solar-heated cottage, an organic garden, a plan for financial
independence in five years, a home-based business, or a more
creative and fulfilling job where we currently work.
We also create ourselves and our lives. We can best create
a life that is an integral whole"that which we glimpse
in our most perfect moments" Abraham Maslow called itby
structuring specific creations so they align with and support
our highest aspirations and deepest longings.
When we see self-actualization or simplifying our lives
or saving the earth as separate, reactive, "solutions" to
life's problems, it is easy to lose touch with the deeper,
stronger life urges that move under the surface to integrate
and align these separate areas into an integral whole, into
a life.
Shifting your primary focus from solving problems to creating
what matters makes possible a new vision of success, one
in which you organize your varied interests into an integrated
daily practice; in which you simplify your life and enrich
your spirit, become the person you most want to be and help
save the earth while you're at it.
This vision of success is integral: it brings together
separate parts of your being into a integral whole. It is creative:
it focuses on producing results that matter, not just getting
rid of problems. It is personal: it allows you to
make your own best choices and take action to support your
highest visions. It is practical: it integrates vision,
reality and action into a unified framework for guiding long-term
and daily decisions and actions. It is sustainable:
rather than fade with time, it grows more powerful with daily
practice. Most important, a creative vision of success is organic:
there is no need to force yourself to take action. In a creative
structure the daily acts of life more easily, naturally,
accumulate into personal integrity and a better world.
The alternative to creating what we most want, is
to endure whatever we get. To integrate our lives and our
culture, we'd do best to see ourselves as creators, architects
of our own futures. That way we can best ensure that the
simplicity we create will satisfy our deepest life urges,
not tempt us back to what Brand calls Involuntary Complexity.
If not us, who? If not now, when?
References:
1. Paul Ray. "The Great Divide: Prospects for an Integral Culture," YES! magazine.
Fall 1996
2. Duane Elgin and Arnold Mitchell, Voluntary Simplicity (3), Co-Evolution
Quarterly, Summer 1977
3. Mary Catherine Bateson, Composing A Life, Plume/Penguin (1990)
4. C. J. Jung, quoted in Robert Fritz, The Path of Least Resistance, Fawcett
Columbine, NY (1989).
Bruce Elkin is founder and Director of the Earthways
Institute, a private, non-profit organization helping individuals,
families, organizations and communities learn how to create what truly
matters to themin harmony with the natural systems that sustain all
life on the planet. This article is based on a forthcoming book entitled, The
Life You Long For: Creating The Simplicity On The Other Side Of Complexity.
To contact Bruce Elkin: 141 Seaview Road, Saltspring Island, BC V8K 2V8
250-537-1177 www.summitstrategies.net.
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