The Healing
Garden
A Place of Peace, A Sacred Space
by Gwen Stewart
The World Health Organization describes health as "the
condition of perfect bodily, spiritual, and social well-being
and not solely the absence of illness and injury." How
many of us feel healthy spiritually, socially, and physically
on a daily basis? We work in structures called "sick-buildings";
we go home to care for families so tired that we are almost
unable to function; and we increasingly lose our connection
with any sense of our place in the universe. How do we reclaim
our lives and start to believe that we are important in the
overall scheme of things?
One way of doing this is to create our own sacred space.
Creating our own space restores our peace of mind and enables
us to stand back from the turmoil in our lives. It enables
us to provide a place of sanctuary where we can reconnect
with our sense of self and reclaim our power. Uses for our
sacred space include such things as writing in a journal,
meditation, and a place of peace and quiet for thinking and
dreaming. It needs to be a place that is safe and comfortable
and where we will not be disturbed.
Two aspects to creating sacred space involve clearing the
clutter both physically and emotionally. Clutter is
defined as: "to fill or cover with scattered or disordered
things that impede movement or reduce effectiveness." (www.m-w.com)
Physical Clutter
The first type of clutter is in our physical environments.
When you look around your home, office, or garden, what do
you see? Can you lay your hands on the items you want, or
do you rummage through the whole house? What about the office,
garden? Karen Kingston in her book, Creating Sacred Space
with Feng Shui, suggests that "clutter is stuck
energy" and when we live surrounded by clutter, it is
like carrying the ball and chain of our past no wonder
we feel tired.
Clearing the clutter releases huge amounts of energy in
the body and when we get rid of everything that has no significance
for us, we literally feel lighter in body, mind, and spirit.
Different types of physical clutter include books, photos,
things that need fixing, magazines, and stuff you are keeping
(just in case).
Practical Steps to Change the Physical Clutter
- Walk around your house and really look at hallways, closets,
passages, counter tops, drawers, etc.
- Clear one room at a time.
- Sort out and recycle that which no longer serves you.
Many other people need items that you no longer find useful
including womens safe shelters, etc.
- Ask yourself, "What does this do for me? Does it
lift my energy or does it drain it?"
- Affirm to yourself: "It is safe to let go." Clearing
clutter is about "letting go" to create space
for something different to enter your life. This includes
more energy and a sense of peace.
Emotional Clutter
Emotionally clearing the clutter means examining the deeper
levels of clutter in our lives, in other words, our communication
skills and our relationships with self and others. According
to holistic thinking, our bodies exist in a state where biochemistry
is closely related to thoughts and emotions. Stress and emotional "dis-ease" can
upset the balance within our systems and ultimately affect
the function of all body organs. Emotions have a profound
effect upon our physical well-being and thought patterns
focusing on the negative are often reflected in our physical
well-being. Emotional clutter includes unproductive relationships,
putting off to tomorrow what you could easily do today, hanging
on to feelings of anger and resentment, keeping yourself
stuck in negativity, and using past-future thinking habits.
Practical Steps to Change the Emotional Clutter
- Pay attention to your self-talk.
- Change the negative into the positive.
- Stay in the "Now" past thinking is guilt
and future thinking is fear (what if?) and creates stress.
- Use affirmations such as: "I choose to feel peace."
- Practice forgiveness. The pathway to love and healing
is forgiveness of self and others.
Now that the clutter is cleared the next step is to find
an area for a sacred space. Some questions that you may want
to ask yourself before you decide are: What feelings do I
want? What features do I want? What sounds do I want? What
colours do I want? What plants do I want?
Location
Ideas for the location of your sacred space in the home
are a corner of a room, an unused room, bathroom, bedroom,
or a wall. In the office a corner of a desk, bulletin board,
or bookcase can be used. In the garden use the corner of
your yard, balcony, deck, or patio for your sacred space.
Colour in Your Sacred Space
An important component of our lives is colour and our sacred
space needs to include colours to which we are attracted.
Colour therapists believe that we are instinctively drawn
to the colours we need for our healing and to balance the
energies in our bodies.
The physical and emotional meaning of colours are: Red energy,
vitality, colour of happiness, wealth; Orange optimism,
courage, good colour for putting your life back together
again when grieving, divorced, or in shock; Yellow contentment,
clarity, feelings of optimism and self-worth; Green growth,
emotional healing, feelings of peace; Blue alleviates
stress and anxiety, colour of communication, relaxation;
Violet Indigo calming, colour of creative visualization,
conducive to meditation; and White peace, spirituality,
healing quality.
Plants for Your Sacred Space
Using life in your space such as plants, flowers, and water
also optimizes the feelings of peace. Green plants not only
provide the healing colour of nature but also clean the air.
In his book, How To Grow Fresh Air, B. G. Wolverton
says, "The lack of foresight by architects, engineers,
and health officials in predicting the consequences of modern
building design for the quality of the air we breathe has
brought us to the brink of a modern day health disaster." We
can alleviate much of this problem by using plants in our
homes and offices. In his book, Trowel Tips, Ken Beattie
tells us, "The next plant you buy may save your life."
Researchers have found that all green plants help clean
the air, so any plants you like are conducive to helping.
Flowering plants clean the air and emit colour energy in
your sacred space as well. Water, which is sacred in all
cultures, provides sounds of tranquillity and filters out
noise in the environment.
Options and Ideas for Creating a Sacred Space
Home:
- Create a space where other people cannot enter except
with your permission.
- Use the fridge to put inspirational quotes on as reminders.
- Start a gratitude journal and list the things you are
grateful for everyday.
- Practice listening to self and others.
- Create an altar with items you love such as candles,
rocks, water fountains, wind chimes, music, plants, flowers.
- Prepare meals with reverence and gratitude.
- Use colour to provide healing, peace, and calmness.
Office:
- Place a piece of tape on your computer and touch it to
remind yourself of your sacredness.
- Breathe just a few minutes. Close your eyes and
breathe more slowly, bring the breath from your toes to
the top of your head, and drop your shoulders to relax.
- Place inspirational quotes on bulletin boards.
- Use terrariums for plants.
- Use table top water fountains which help provide humidity.
- Use the most important prayer in the world identified
by Meister Eckhart as just two words: Thank You.
- Use the colour green, in particular plants, to provide
calming and peace.
Garden:
- One plant in a pot can create a place of peace (a sacred
space).
- Use water fountains to engage the flow of prosperity
and abundance.
- Use wind chimes to draw music from the wind.
- Create circles, which represent wholeness.
- Encourage wildlife which represents offering hospitality
to the other creatures of our planet (dont use pesticides,
herbicides, or chemical fertilizers if you want birds and
butterflies).
- Grow plants for all senses hearing, sight, smell,
taste, and touch.
- The most important component some place to sit bench,
chairs, lounge.
Finally, in creating your sacred space, remember you are
unique. There will never be anyone on the planet like you
and you have a right to spend time caring for yourself. As
Richard Bolles says in his book, What Colour is Your Parachute, "You
are Gods gift to the planet and your uniqueness is
the gift to the rest of us."
Gwen Stewart is a social worker, master gardener, and horticultural
therapist living in Regina. She designs indoor/outdoor gardens
and conducts workshops, seminars, and retreats. She may be
contacted at (306) 586-6898 or email: stewartg@accesscomm.ca.
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